"I haven't slept since he left me! I'm desperate and I need your help!" Shouted Beth. I could tell she had been crying but she was covering it up.
I looked my best friend straight in the eye and said, "Just relax. I know exactly how you can get him back." With a devilish grin on my face.
You see, Beth came to me because of my "unique" expertise when it came to situations like this. Me being a male relationship coach... I knew exactly what "buttons" she could press that would drive her boyfriend crazy... Triggers specific to men that would make her ex boyfriend come back to her. On his knees.
Beth relaxed a bit after hearing my encouraging words and said, "I could sense something was wrong for the past few weeks now but I didn't do anything about it. I could literally feel him slipping away from me. Little by little he drifted further and further away, giving me less and less attention. I honestly didn't know what to do..."
I just smiled inwardly, knowing all too well that this kind of thing happens all the freakin' time. Lord knows I've gone through it many times myself. Everything was going well with Beth and her boyfriend for years until eventually:
This all went on for about two months (driving poor Beth crazy wondering why). And then, seemingly out of nowhere he drops those four little words that made Beth's heart do summersaults. Thump! Thump! Thump!
When they went out for coffee, Beth was pretty nervous. She could sense what was coming. She knew they were having problems, but she never guessed it would come to this.
As he made small talk, Beth's heart continued to race. She tried her best to hold herself together but it was no use. He kept saying things like:
He even went on to blame Beth for the problems in the relationship. As if it was somehow all her fault.
And after that, the rest is history. You already know how it ends because it literally just happened to you. And just like my friend Beth, you're going to need my help, so read on.
What if I told you that you could easily take the pain of rejection (that you are feeling right now) and transfer it onto your ex boyfriend? How quickly do you think he would come crawling back to you? If he was feeling the kind of pain you are right now?
The entire reason you want your ex boyfriend back so badly is because he rejected you. It's human nature to want what we cannot have. Especially if we had that something and it was suddenly taken away from us.
The solution is to completely reverse the rejection you're feeling right now. The solution I gave Beth (and hundreds before her) were a few "dirty little tricks" to push her mans "emotional hot buttons". Specific things she could do and say to make him feel like...
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